What do 25 year old men want

Ever wonder why are men such boys? Do they ever grow up and notice the inner woman? After all, beauty is only skin deep, and we want a man to admire us for more than a seductive arrangement of body parts.

As a public service, I conducted a poll asking men at different stages of their lives what attracts them to a woman. Their answers were very He explains, "My first thought when I see a woman is, 'Do I want to have sex with her?

At this stage of my life I'm not particularly looking for anything long-lasting. In terms of women, well, the more the merrier. Men in their twenties want a pretty woman, an ornament on their arm to show their boss and the world: "Hey, I must be really cool to attract such a hot babe. There's a hope at the end of this semi-shallow tunnel of youth: As men in their twenties age, they begin learning from experience. So any busty blondes reading this can contact me through the Website.

But I also want a woman who's sensitive because, hey, I got feelings. Jim, a comic, recalls, "When I was seven I wanted a girl who could make a good sand castle. At 17, she just had to be stacked. At 27, she couldn't want to be my wife. Now that I'm 30 I want somebody sane and stable. The bottom line: While a cute tush still makes my head turn, it's the gray matter that keeps me interested.

Instead, find a nonsexual way to bridge the gulf between his workday and a relaxing evening of nookie. Massage is one strategy not the naked hot-oil kind -- a neck rub is fine. Vegging out to TV is another. Bottom line: Break down his stress, and he'll be much more responsive and enthusiastic. After all, given the level of preoccupation at this stage of a man's life, sex can serve as a powerful way to reconnect with his wife, a quick reassurance that the relationship is still strong despite the slipshod maintenance.

We'd say, God, that was fantastic -- why don't we make this more of a priority? But even for schedule-conscious guys, quickies alone won't do it. What men in this stage desperately need is a total escape from both work and the pressures of home, and a wild night of passion can do the trick like nothing else. So once a month or so, dust off the lingerie and fire up the candles. But don't stop with candles and a babysitter. Try new positions, props and attitude, even if you were strictly man-on-top vanilla before.

Odds are he'll be thrilled, since breaking old habits helps take this event out of the realm of the ordinary and gives your husband more of a fantasy experience.

Also, men harbor a great nostalgic ache for their wild bachelor youths, and a little sexual variation on your part can partially stimulate that unfettered single state he's convinced himself he remembers.

The upside to his likely preoccupation is that he may not be so quick on the trigger, which will free you to experiment with expanding your foreplay to include whole-body involvement. Remember, the key is to break him out of his work daydream, so sink him in the fantasy of the experience with subtle perfume, deep kisses, roaming hands. You should also seize this opportunity to really define yourself as an erotic being: Slip into some sexy lingerie, turn down the lights, pour him a glass of wine, and To make sure you continue to hit all his buttons, once in a while you've got to be a little obvious.

No moment is as starkly defined for men as "Turning Corvalan, M. Suddenly, they take their physical condition very seriously, paying renewed attention to diet and exercise. Aging is a dismal enough prospect, but when it starts to affect sexuality, it becomes downright tragic.

Men can feel intensely emasculated when problems -- prostate trouble, lack of flexibility -- start cropping up. It's tough on a man's pride, to say the least, and all this pressure and disappointment can culminate in that great bane of the something man: the midlife crisis. But the news isn't all bad. If that pure, uncut stallion stamina is starting to wane as he heads up and over the hill, at least it's being replaced by maturity and experience, laying the groundwork for a potential bonanza for you.

But for you to take advantage of your husband's well-aged, finely honed skills, it's important to start subtly adapting your foreplay to accommodate his changing physicality. Your husband may be inordinately interested in straightforward, athletic man-on-top sex, since part of the point of sex at this phase is to prove he can still do it. So indulge him, listen patiently to his Tarzan roar and compliment his stamina afterward.

It makes you someone who will age like some fine-ass wine. Not boxers. Not briefs. Good boxer-briefs are comfy, make your bulge look great, and, uh, that's the only case that needs to be made for boxer-briefs.

It makes zero sense for your female partner to be the one to bring the condom when it's for Y-O-U-R penis. And if she has to remind you to please wear one, it's a double buzzkill. Show your maturity by curating your own stash rather than relying on that one condom wedged in your wallet since , which is probably not safe to use. Because having a fridge full of real food and the ability to whip up a grilled cheese for your boo or yourself is a deeply-underrated, highly-attractive quality.

Read a lot , and read everyone. You know that Zeppelin poster that tragically got creased and torn when you untaped it from your college dorm room?

This is why frames matter—they take care of the art you spend money on! And no, you don't need to get boring art or shell out crazy cash for custom framing—just buy a few cool prints from places like Red Bubble , get frames that match their dimensions, and instantly elevate your room. If you're in the "can I leave my toothbrush here? After all, the least you can do for someone you consistently have sex with is protect their toothbrush. Look, student loan debt is real and no one's judging if you barely have a significant cash stash right now.

But starting off with a little just to make a separate account for it and slowly getting into the habit of adding money to the pot is so, so important in case of future emergencies or future trips!

There are plenty of apps like Mint that will help you save in small ways that eventually add up, or break down where you might be spending a little too much. It's not news that people are chronically plugged in and dealing with depression and anxiety as a result.

That's why it's a good idea to have something that doesn't involve using your phone, laptop, or TV: A guitar. A sketch pad.